Pre-Marital Issues

Bend Marriage Counseling: The Changing Attitudes on Marriage

April 14, 2016 by

Bend Marriage Counseling: The Changing Attitudes on Marriage

Marriage is constantly evolving. And because of this evolution, the ideas, thoughts, and attitudes on marriage might look a lot different than they looked 50, 20, or even just 10 years ago.

Here in the United States, the marriage rate continues to ...

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Secure Functioning: The Foundation of a Fulfilling Relationship

October 22, 2015 by

This Bend Marriage counselor just returned from the exciting and inspiring Imago International Conference in St. Petersburg, Florida. Stan Tatkin PsyD, author of Wired for Love, was the first keynote speaker. His presentation focused on our deep longing for a securely functioning relationship. Hallmarks of secure functioning are a two-person ...

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Bend Marriage Counselor says incompatability can lead to real love

July 23, 2013 by

One of the reasons this Bend Marriage Counselor has appreciated Harville Henrix and Helen Lakelly Hunt is they have literally “mined “ the unconscious purpose of loving relationship. So often the cultural myths of finding, growing and sustaining real love are not what most of us experience in our personal ...

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